Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Parenting and the World

Parenting is one of the most neglected topics of discussion. We talk about politics, the economy and education, but we seldom address the root of our children's success – our parenting skills. We spend a minimum of 15 years in school to learn about everything, but parenting. Parenting is arguably a major component, if not the most important component in the equation of nation building. The moral character, leadership skill, attitude of servitude, and integrity lay in the hands of parents the world over. History has shown again and again that when the cornerstone of families starts to deteriorate, it is a sure sign that the nation will crumble.

When ever I am asked to speak about parenting, I will start by saying, "Ordinary parents raise children, but great parents raise great parents." Nope, there is no typo here or slip of the pen. I mean exactly that. Think about it. Your children are eventual parents when they make it to adulthood. Whether they have biological children of their own, or adopt or mentor or hold positions in the corporate sector, or leadership in church, ministries, and government, they effectively operate as parents and effect the whole world around them.

My three years as a lecturer at a local college here has testified to me that our children are bankrupted. Underneath the veneer of material embellishments, like new cars and the latest hand phones and cool apparels, is a very hideous picture of desolation. It's not too late for you and your children. And it's within your power to make a change from the ground up, starting with your child.

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